Lobster and Crab Stuffed Grilled Cheese

Name: Lobster and Crab Stuffed Grilled Cheese
Ingredients: 4 ounces cooked Maine lobster; 4 ounces cooked blue crab meat; 2 slices sweet bread; 1/2 ounce whipped mayonnaise; 2 slices American cheese; 1 ounce shredded cabbage, plus for garnish; 1 ounce diced tomato; 1/2 ounce Lemon Beurre Blanc, recipe follows; 1/2 ounce shredded cheesemix; 1/2 ounce Lava Sauce, recipe follows; Paprika, for garnish; 6 ounces shoestring fries, for serving; 2 shallots, finely chopped; 8 ounces white wine; 2 ounces lemon juice; 1 tablespoon heavy cream; 12 tablespoons (1 1/2 sticks) cold unsalted butter, cubed; Salt and white pepper; 4 cups mayonnaise; 1/2 cup sambal; 1 cup sweet Thai chile sauce; 1/4 cup lemon juice