Fried Green Tomatoes

Name: Fried Green Tomatoes
Ingredients: 6 cups canola oil; 4 green tomatoes, medium size; 3 cups all-purpose flour (1 1/2 cups of flour reserved for the cornmeal breading mix); 2 1/2 cups milk; 2 large eggs; 1/2 cup cornmeal; 1 tablespoon kosher salt; 1 tablespoon celery salt; 1/2 tablespoon cayenne pepper; 1 tablespoon ground black pepper; 1 teaspoon onion powder; Pinch paprika; 4 ounces goat cheese; 2 cups The Flying Biscuit Cashew Relish, recipe follows; 1/3 cup fresh cilantro; 2 large red jalapenos; 1 1/2 cups cashews; 3/4 cup honey; 1/3 cup white vinegar