Spicy Garam Masala Chicken Wings

Name: Spicy Garam Masala Chicken Wings
Ingredients: 2 teaspoons grated lemon zest; 1 1/2 teaspoons garam masala; 1 1/2 teaspoons kosher salt; 1 teaspoon granulated garlic; 1/2 teaspoon cayenne pepper; 1/2 teaspoon ground cumin; 3 pounds chicken wings, separated into flats (wing tips removed) and drumettes, patted dry; 1 tablespoon olive oil; 1 stick (8 tablespoons) unsalted butter; 1 tablespoon plus 1 1/2 teaspoons grated peeled fresh ginger; 4 cloves garlic, minced; 1/4 cup plus 2 tablespoons chili paste (I use sambal olek); 2 tablespoons garam masala; 2 teaspoons honey; Kosher salt; 2 tablespoons chopped cilantro, for garnish